Five simple ways to help a neighbour feel welcome

You may see the same person at the mailbox, on your street, or outside your building without ever speaking. Welcoming Week is a good time to change that. A short conversation can be the start of getting to know someone.

In London and Middlesex County, the All Are Welcome Here campaign encourages residents to take practical steps towards more welcoming communities. Here are five things you can try, whether you have lived here for years or recently arrived yourself.

1. Introduce yourself to a neighbour you haven’t met

Choose a moment when neither of you seems rushed. Say hello, share your name, and give the other person time to respond. Let them decide how much they want to share.

For example: “Hi, I’m Alex. I live a few doors down. I don’t think we’ve met.” You can start there without asking where someone comes from or why they moved.

2. Learn someone’s name and use it correctly

If you are unsure how to say a name, ask the person to help you. Listen carefully and try it yourself. If you make a mistake later, correct it and continue the conversation.

You might say: “Could you say your name again? I’d like to get it right.” Use the name they give you, rather than shortening it or choosing a nickname for them.

3. Invite someone to a specific activity

A clear invitation gives someone enough information to decide whether they want to join. Explain what you are doing, when and where, and whether it costs anything. Offer to go together, and make it comfortable to decline.

For example: “I’m going for a walk around the park on Saturday at ten. Would you like to come with me?” If they say no, accept their answer warmly.

4. Offer help finding local information, if they want it

Ask before giving advice. Someone may already have the information they need, or prefer to find it themselves. If they would like help, look at the relevant organization’s current information together instead of guessing.

If a neighbour mentions wanting a library card, you could say: “Would it help to look at the library’s website together?” Let them choose what to do next.

5. Make room for someone in a conversation

When another person joins, introduce them and briefly explain the topic. Give them a chance to speak. Explain local references and shortened names that may be unfamiliar, without putting them on the spot.

For example: “We’re talking about the neighbourhood meeting next week. The BIA, or Business Improvement Area, is helping organize it.” A little context makes the conversation easier to follow.

Choose one action to try today. The next time you see that neighbour, say hello again. Getting to know each other takes more than one meeting.